26

Beans of Wisdom: The Beanception

This week in Beans of Wisdom…

It all started with last week’s Wise Beans, when OmegaWau asked in comment #1:

What are we really doing when we are commenting on a post about comments?

requiemfortimewellwasted replied:

what am I really doing when I am commenting on a comment on commenting on a post about comments??

Then Orl added:

What am I really doing when I am commenting on a comment of a comment on commenting on a post about comments?

What are we really doing when we’re posting comments of people commenting on other commenters commenting on a post about other people’s comments?

 

On my scheduling mistake (derp) for this week’s “Open Thread #447,” Risa had a much better theory in comment #2.1:

Yeah, I wonder if there will be another OT tomorrow, and if so, will it be #448, or #447 part 2 (since numbering it 448 would throw off the count in terms of the number of weeks that OT has been going)? I think this may have happened once before, years ago– but my memory’s fuzzy.

Ohhh, maybe we all have k-drama-induced dementia, and it really is Friday, but we just don’t realize it. Or maybe we’re having a collective vision of a future event, like Do-kyung in Oh Hye Young Again. Or perhaps we’ve entered an alternate reality, like in the upcoming drama W– or maybe Heads#2’s alter, Heads#1, decided it’d be fun to mess with us. Or Heads could be in Queensland (a place she clearly belongs) where it already is Friday…
In any case, I hope no one missed a meeting or class, etc because they convinced themselves that it must be Friday after seeing the OT!

Happy Thursday/Friday/whatever, everyone!

 

In the make-up post “Open Thread #447: Take 2,” Waiting made it all seem better at #27:

HeadsNo2 praise…

You know, even little missteps are amusing and heartwarming like posting OT on Thursday. We are all human and these things just give us a chance to laugh it off and carry on.

Thursday OT and today’s take 2 really made me smile and appreciate HeadsNo2 all the more for being real.

Love this beanie community for being the awesome group that it is and to JB, GF, HeadsNo2 and all the others for setting a great example of just being real and awesomely human.

Three cheers for y’all! Hip, Hip!!

You guys are the best.

 

Wag_a_Muffin had a prediction on how things could go down in “SBS’s Entertainer gets 2-episode extension” (#11):

How are they going to extend this show? I predict:

Shin Suk-Ho will get a memory loss disease and not tell anyone. This will become evident when he goes back to KTop and thinks he’s still the manager of Jackson–which he believes is not a K-Boy Band, but a duo composed of “She Was Pretty’s” Hwang Jung-Eum and Choi Si-Won.

Ha-Neul will confess his love for his “sister,” Geu-Rin. This, and the hidden feelings she has for him will freak her out so badly that she will manifest “noble idiot syndrome” and emigrate to Turkey, to learn how to brew coffee.

Yeo Min-Joo will quit the business and go back to her family and live as a pampered, rich, heiress.

A huge secret about Kayle will be revealed when it is made known that he never went to Julliard, but studied music in “Julie’s yard,” a friend of his who lives in New York.
Na Yeon-Soo will have a total break down when the mother of his son sues him for custody. Yeo Min-Joo uses her money to help him fight. But this uncovers the fact that Na Yeon-Soo and his little boy, are actually brothers, not father and son.

Lee Joon-Suk, KTop’s evil owner is convicted of killing Ha-Neul’s brother. But he escapes when the police van that is taking him to prison crashes into a phone booth where Kim Joo-Han is making a call to a film maker. Begging him to cast evil Lee Ji-Young in a three-quel movie of My Sassy Girl.

(What? You don’t think so? I bet I’ve got at least 3 of them right!)

 

In “Cinderella and the Four Knights still without a broadcaster,” Alessar noted in comment #2:

I can’t wait for the day that Netflix just picks up a show like this out of the blue.

Then, later in the post:

Yes! Atelier. I keep meaning to watch it. I just think it’s inevitable as they go more and more global that they’ll have to crack the K-drama market at some point. As it is, they do license quite a few K-dramas that have already been on DramaFever and Viki. The downside is of course that just as with anime (a lot of shows hit Crunchyroll or Funimation first), many of the hard core fans already viewed the shows on the dedicated sites so they’re looking at metrics from the general viewership. But that’s ok; as long as they keep licensing stuff it shows there’s interest.

Now you look at the global phenomena Descendants of the Sun is and realize that’s EXACTLY the kind of pre-produced show Netflix is good at. Look at Signal and it’s almost unheard of for cable ratings AND unlike Miseang the story would work in other countries pretty easily.

The only real question is will they go for a romantic comedy, action/spy/thriller, or some kind of makjang revenge drama first. A fantasy sageuk is probably not as likely; then again they did make Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon 2.

 

bebeswtz offered an explanation to others wondering what all the hubbub about Lee Sang-yoon has been about lately in “Choi Ji-woo, Lee Sang-yoon courted for On the Way to the Airport” (#5.2.1.1):

The dating news of Lee Sang Yoon and Uee came out not even a week after “Marriage Contract” ended, right when people were still (ARE STILL, like me) thinking and talking about the drama even after it finished airing. Most of the talking and commenting about the drama was actually about the superb chemistry between Lee Seo Jin and Uee, and both “Marriage Contract” stars had been fielding questions about each other during their post-production interviews and promo rounds about whether or not they were actually dating, whether or not there was a chance for them to date in real life after the drama ended, do they actually or did they actually have feelings for each other during filming, etc., etc. Then PLOP, news and confirmations came out that Uee and Lee Sang Yoon came out, and it seems now that Uee has actually stopped doing interviews and promos regarding “Marriage Contract” and has moved on to other jobs (CFs, photoshoots), and seemingly Lee Seo Jin has also moved onto other jobs (his new variety show on Naver, titled “Welcome Show”) but he still seems to be asked questions about Uee, and whether or not he knew she was dating, during interviews >.< Many are saying that the dating news came out and that 'Lee Sang Yoon purposefully let it out (then confirmed it again on his own website/fancafe) because he's 'jealous' about all the talk about the chemistry between Uee and Lee Seo Jin as an on-screen couple =((

 

In the same post, Delurker offered some worthy advice on a particularly unfriendly comment in #17.6:

Hit-and-run meanness. Please everyone, just ignore trolls; the last thing they need is attention. The moment a single person answers a trolling post, their work is done. I think DB is being invaded, precisely because they are getting a reaction every time. Let’s try icy indifference instead :P.

 

In “Lee Jung-jae becomes a god,” PollyRose had a legitimate question in #11:

Not that I don’t believe you both fully love Lee Jung Jae, but Girlfriday how did you manage to beat out Javabeans for the right to share this news?! Is it because she’s a puddle of goo right now? I understand it takes a while to recover from that state. 😉

[Still a little gooey! –javabeans]

 

And with Oh Hae-young Again picking up steam, we have a handful of comments to feature (we’re doing our best not to include anything spoilery!). In “Oh Hae-young: Episode 3,” Mal said in comment #4:

This show is my newest addiction. …

What I love about Oh Hae-young Again is its incredibly colorful, fresh, and relatable characters. The humor and heart is spot-on, too. The entire cast, PD, and writer are new to me, so I have no idea what to expect going forward, but so far (coming off of watching episode 4) I am loving everything. I love Hae-young, Do-kyung, Do-kyung’s crazy siblings and his best friend, and Hae-young’s parents. (Kim Mi-kyung as mama Oh gives me life. Lol) I can foresee some terribly awkward (awkwardly delicious?) situations concerning the two Hae-youngs, and I’m definitely looking forward to when the romance kicks in because Hae-young and Do-kyung have major chemistry. They feel so comfortable together and bounce off each other well.

Gah. I’m in love with this show. I look forward to Mondays now.

 

There were a number of suggestions for how to refer to the two Oh Hae-youngs. Apluszee starts it off at #20:

If we’re using Pretty Oh Haeyoung vs Just Oh Haeyoung, can’t we let Just Oh Haeyoung be Witty/Awesome Oh Haeyoung instead? Cos she’s faaaaar to good to be Just Oh Haeyoung.

Lola:

Oh Hae Young (ours) and No(h) Hae Young (formally Pretty Oh Hae Young)?

Peeps:

I suggest Oh! HaeYoung for our pretty HaeYoung and Oh, HaeYoung for the other, trauma-inducing one.

[Oh Hae-young and No Hae-young! Clever. –javabeans]

 

And still in the Episode 3 thread, we have anglvue at #3:

i’ve found myself teary eyed just about every episode thus far. i really love our oh hae young so much. she’s relatable. she’s the person i feel i am many days of the week. and although she always seems to be down on her luck, she has this positive outlook on life. she’s never wanted to be anyone else. “i still love myself the way i am.” that was such a meaningful conversation and something i needed to hear myself.

 

And in “Oh Hae-young Again: Episode 4,” comment #6, hawoojinruinedme said:

This drama is gold, and Seo Hyun-jin is a blessing.

 

And rounding it out, we end up back in last week’s Beans of Wisdom, where browngoldeyes said of her conundrum being featured in #10:

Oh my gosh. I didn’t even check back on the comments from the last week. Thank you guys so much for the love and the very, very needed dose of reality. I’m glad I’m not alone – particularly on the South Asian family really messing with my head and my being able to enjoy singlehood – and it’s definitely helped me feel a bit better.

pogo replied:

Glad we beanies were able to help! *hugs*

There’s nothing wrong with wanting love and romance in your life – we’re all drama lovers here! – but being taught that a relationship is compulsory for a fulfilling life leads us to be far too harsh on ourselves when we fall short of our own expectations. You’re awesome, with or without that special someone.

Hear, hear!

 
RELATED POSTS

Tags:

26

Required fields are marked *

soooooo......
are we now consciously trying not to comment on a post about comments in order to avoid comments about the comments in reply to our comments on the post of comments................
I don't think I truly understand what I just wrote but hey......at least I still commented ;)

0
2
reply

Required fields are marked *

Hahaha, I can't make sense of it anymore either!

(Btw your name reminds me of someone I know! I call her Naimi Unni :P Nice to meet you! You can call me Sky. :) )

0
1
reply

Required fields are marked *

Hi sky unni,

nice to meet you too.
I can't believe I actually posted that and that it became the first comment and that you even replied......
It sort of reminds me of the rake gag getting progressively funnier the longer it goes on.

P.S.
Is your friend an Indian too...
Coz that's what I am.

0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Pogo- the wise beanie! :D
Love the fact that Oh hae Young is being loved.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Awesome beanception!

Heads, I also confused last Thursday and I thought it's really Friday.. LOL.
I echo Waiting's sentiment, mistake like this makes us more human, makes us more real, not cardboard cutout or robot. It's okay, everyone makes mistakes and some of them make it on daily basis, the one thing we need to do is to forgive ourselves, apologize and move on. Cheers, Heads!

0
3
reply

Required fields are marked *

Ha, I don't think any of us cared and many were even happy to have two Open Threads this week (although some were momentarily panicking thinking they had lost a day), but I can imagine the horrible sinking feeling that poor Heads got when she first realized that she had posted it on the wrong day. I know that feeling, it's the stuff of nightmares. Anyway, I'm glad she doesn't seem too traumatized by it, although she might be checking the calendar a little obsessively the next few weeks. :-)

0
reply

Required fields are marked *

OMG I didn't even notice it was the wrong day. :o I just saw the OT and thought "wow time flies fast...."

Been stuck at home for weeks now so the days blur together. ?

0
1
reply

Required fields are marked *

# Blury days
If you ask me what's todays date I would be like," between 13 to 16". Weeks go zooming by blurry but I'm glad coz its damn 41° in my region.
Its vacation time for me and my schedule goes like
EAT
reading db comments
Watch dramas
Sleep
REPEAT.

0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Aww,I love the closing comment. So heartwarming and encouraging.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

@Pogo: ❤️ Your comment!
"... being too harsh on ourselves when we fall short of our own expectations..."

With the internet, social media, heck even dramas, it's hard not to compare and feel not good enough.

Thank you for putting into words what we should be feeling: that we are all awesome, just the way we are.
(Except for maybe psychopaths, murders and... trolls ?)

Wishing all a fabulous week ahead! ❤️

0
3
reply

Required fields are marked *

Pogo's comment reminds me of the poem desiderata.

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be.

And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

“”
Max Ehrmann, "Desiderata".[1]

0
2
reply

Required fields are marked *

Wow... so deep.
Thanks for sharing this beautiful poem, Enz~! Love it!

0
1
reply

Required fields are marked *

You're welcome Gaeina. I have it in my iPhone notes coz I love it.

0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Yay! More Oh Hae Young love!

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Now I'm actually curious how jb and gf decide who gets to post particularly juicy news - in my head, there's one of those quiz show-style buzzer setups, with the one who's fastest on the buzzer getting to make the post.

Glad to see all the Oh Hae-young love, both for the show and the character.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Laughing so hard at Wag_a_Muffin's prediction for Entertainer. I bet some of it will come true. I still can't believe they always sacrifice an already mediocre drama so that the next series in slot have more time to prepare itself. But with the state Wanted in right now, extending Entertainer by 2 eps sounds like an all-kill strategy.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Thank you for the recognition. My self-esteem has been pretty battered lately, so it's sweet of you to include me as one of this week's wise beans.

0
1
reply

Required fields are marked *

your comment was a pure laughter pill. :D

oh, and you should know, you're cherished around here! sending a big warm teddy bear-ish hug your way!

0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Seo Hyun Jin is my new girl crush...she is amazing!

(Still planning to finish Musketeers because of her....one day...when the twins are 18 :--)) )

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

What a delight read, once again.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

I had a mini freak-out! I was just happily reading through this Beans of Wisdom when... suddenly -- I saw my name! Thanks for featuring my thoughts on Oh Hae-Young! So glad the show's picking up steam and so many viewers really seem to like it! Gah, just two more days until the next episode. It's not like I'm counting or anything... Also Wag_a_Muffin needs an award for that hilarious prediction of Entertainer's extension episodes!!

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

that last comment...
this is why this is one of the few places i participate in, we comment on comments from other commenters about comments...lol... and the support for one another.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

The encouragement and support on this site is truly beautiful.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

Thanks again, for the feature, Dramabeans ~!!!

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

I have been enjoying this feature, but this week I'm grateful for it. It has been a crappy week on many levels and I just-dah! I was going to cross this article right off my RSS feed but the intro made me smile so I opened it up. As I read through the article it made me smile more. I feel a lot better than I did before I started reading, so thanks for that.

I haven't been reading the comments lately, but now I want to do so again, because this feature reminds me of how much I used to enjoy them. Thanks to our sleepless leaders and the Beanies for consciously building such an awesome community.

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *

reading this beanies section just made me wanna share a little on whats going on in my head...so here goes...

right now with break I've been taking from all my korean drama watching, (after 7 years i would like to add - it all started with BOF) i just cant help but to be in awe of the dramabeans community. How do you manage to recap all those episodes of hundreds of dramas, manage your blog, go thru all of the beanies comments and also go thru whatever your own life and jobs have to offer you? your love for kdramas must be a whole lot huger than my own! well i doo love my kdramas no doubting that ! Here's hoping i will return again as a more balanced and sensible kdrama-er !
ps: still a huge fan though - the love never died but unfortunately its just a little low on the fire burning - your blog keeps me going on with my kdrama too <3 hehe

0
0
reply

Required fields are marked *