You know, if this is the look on his face every single stinking time you are together, you may possibly want to rethink your plan to marry him at all costs.
As I am in mourning for Father is Strange, I have been watching an old Lee Yu-ri daily. All kinds of soapy fun. The villianess keeps getting thwarted by modern medicine. It\’s awesome!
I finally checked out the Korean restaurant down the street. It was amazingly good! If any of you are ever in the Salt Lake City area, I can recommend Myung Ga.
I am in the SLC area! I’ve tried all the ones closer to downtown except Ejo, but I recently realized they have black bean noodles and so I gotta. Fingers crossed Go Kyung‑pyo will deliver them to me.
maybe it was a reference to Wonder Woman who comes from the Amazonian race who doesn’t really have any experience with men, especially human men…from the little I know about Wonder Woman origins anyway, don’t quote me on that as I’m pretty ignorant to her story.
I was going to write a post about how funny it is that Kocowa feels the need to blur out the sponsor banners at the end of the show, but when I tried to take an illustrative screenshot, I discovered that Kocowa also blacks out screenshots. I find this considerably less amusing.
If you want me to pay your subscription, Kocowa, you better get your act together soon.
Oh man. That sucks. I’m sorry. I haven’t bought into premium, so I can’t watch anything over 24 hrs old,* but is has played shows that are unlocked for me just fine. Sometimes it even forgets to play ads. I know I am one of the lucky few, for all my griping.
*Have heard that things older than 3 weeks and newer than 1 year are also available. Haven’t attempted any of them yet, though.
If Kocowa wants subscribers they should try to actually be better than the other streaming services instead of hogging all the shows to force people to sign up. I’m hoping that Kocowa will fail miserably and things will be back to normal by the next show cycle.
Agreed! That would be the way to do it. I really wish they had taken the time to look at their competitors to see what they do well and what could be better. As is . . . I feel like they rushed the launch to cash in on this cycle, and it’s backfiring on them.
It really does. You know, I was thinking about the China situation, and how the broadcasters need new revenue streams, and having their own streaming site makes sense. And I appreciate their content, and want then to be able to afford to keep making it for me. But Kocowa is so freaking frustrating in so many ways! I do not want to pay for that!!!! And making it harder to watch is not going to make me a happy return customer.
I thought my phone was acting up! No screenshots on your phone is insane. It makes no sense. Where is our KOCOWA petition for all these weird policies.
I was called Madam today. Somehow madam seem so much older that ma\’am, let alone miss. I felt like all of those drama old maids who get huffy about being called ahjumma.
I hate trying to watch shows on the 3rd party sites. When they actually let me watch rather than sending me off to some other malicious site, the video stops and stutters. Dagnabbit, why didn\’t Viki or DF snag the license for either Reunited Worlds or Man Who Dies to Live?!?!? #firstworldproblems #grumpyentitledoldlady
Dramabeans has sent me off to malicious sites 3 times tonight. I expect that from the 3rd party streaming sites, but this is the first time this has ever happened to me here. 😨
It has happened to me a few times, I make sure to clear my cookies and browser history after it happens and it seems to prolong the time until happens again
Bear with me here. I am not talking about Cancer Dramas, where the cancer is built into the premise and you know what you are getting into from the get-go ala Uncontrollably Fond or Marriage Contract. I am talking about when you are watching something else entirely, say a happy fluffy rom-com, when things suddenly take a sharp left turn and one of your main characters gets cancer. So be warned — there will be major spoilers below.
After reading Lollypip’s entry on Marriage Before Dating, a known catnip of mine, I looked up and watched Wonderful Life, the only show she mentioned that I hadn’t already watched and loved. I was watching it in bits and pieces, an episode here and an episode there, in between my live watches. And very much enjoying it. And then the baby got leukemia. And suddenly I had watched 5 episodes in a row, and it was 4am and I needed to be at work in only a few short hours.
Now, I’ve been a drama addict for a few years now, and I’ve got it mostly under control now. (Shut up! I said mostly!) I’ve figured out the secret to avoiding all night marathons, and this no longer happens to me. So I was caught by surprise when I wasn’t able to put Wonderful Life down. Which got me to thinking about the last time this had happened.
Single Dad in Love. You’ve probably never heard of it since this is an old and not particularly good show. I found it while browsing through DC and liked the title (single dads being a favorite trope of mine). Read the summary — titular Single Dad falls for Heroine, whose stepmother happens to be his ex — and decided I had to see how they were going to navigate that mess. Cause you know Koreans are not just going to shrug and say, “Well, this is going to make family dinners awkward.” So I started watching it, and it was cute. Nothing to write home about, but cute. And then the hero discovered the family connection. And then the kid got cancer. Since apparently “my baby-mama is my potential mother-in-law” does not provide enough angst. So I kept watching late into the night to see if the kid got saved. He did. Yay! But then the hero got cancer too. I kept plowing through, waiting for them to clear up the cancer so they could get around to sorting out the family stuff. But no. Apparently the writer decided to take the easy way out and ended the drama right before the hero went in for brain surgery to remove the tumor. Gah!!!!
It was the exact same thing both times that had suckered me into pulling an all nighter watching dramas. I tried to think if this had happened before, mentally going through my list of dramas to see if these two shows were flukes, or if I had been sucked in by this before. And I remembered Bad Couple. This one I watched early in my drama-watching career, when all-nighters were not such a rarity.
But yes, when the heroine suddenly got cancer, I got sucked in even deeper. (I am saying even deeper because I was already in love with Bad Couple well before the cancer. I recognize that it is not the best show out there, but I loved it. It was my first Favorite KDrama that I watched multiple times. I still look back on it fondly. And still have a bit of a lingering crush on Ryu Soo-young left over from that show.)
Anyway, that is what I meant when I say I discovered a Stealth Catnip. I don’t go out looking for dramas with a cancer plot-twist. As a matter of fact, I find it to be manipulative and lazy writing. If I know about it beforehand, I will avoid it. But, dagnabbit, it works. At least on me. Blindside me with cancer and I will be glued to your drama late into the night and biting my nails to the end.
Well to each there own I suppose. Personally I hated Bad Couple when the cancer came in and even more so because it was so good before. Even 10 years later I don’t think there’s ever been a romcom/trendy that came close to the level of raunchy humor and honesty about sex of the first few episodes.
Yay! Someone else who has fond memories Bad Couple!
To be honest, I’m a bit surprised that the cancer plot-twist made me mad at Single Dad (while still keeping me watching obsessively) but enforced my love of Bad Couple. Maybe because I found it so early on in my drama watching?
The time travel plot is the universe’s way of getting Hyun-jae to mend his selfish ways, and lets him see how his choices and actions affect those around him, a la It’s a Wonderful Life or A Christmas Carol. It takes a while for the message to get through, as he is very very self centered. Once it does, though, he is allowed to return to 1993. This time around, when Bo-hee tells him she is pregnant, instead of doing a runner, he marries her and they become a Hallyu power couple.
Kwang-jae never needs to be Bo-hee’s Knight in Shining Armor, so he never falls for her, and does not spend the next 20 odd years pining uselessly. Therefore, when Bo-hee’s stylist’s husband walks out on her, he is heart-free to rescue this damsel. He is a stabilizing influence on Woo-seung’s mother, and she is a freeing influence on him, and together they create a stable, loving home life for Woo-seung. Also lots of dongsaengs.
Hyun-jae lets Young-jae know how much he appreciates him and needs him, so Young-jae’s inferiority complex is not allowed to take root and he no longer feels the need to prove himself to everyone at all times. Once their idol days are over, Young-jae, Hyun-jae, and Kwang-jae together form J3, a successful and principled talent agency where they help MC Drill overcome his stage fright, and occasionally let Hye-ri eat.
Ji-hoon has a leg up when it comes to following his dreams, thanks to his famous parents. They still made him go to college before pursuing the stage, but are fully supportive of his music career. He and Woo-seung still grew up together and were still childhood friends, but this time around Ji-hoon has the confidence to confess his changing feelings early on. Woo-seung still writes songs, and she and Ji-hoon make great collaborators.
Everyone lives happily and healthily ever after. The end.
Apparently I posted an inappropriate word. I’m not sure what it was. Anyway, to answer your question, I watched it at DramaFever. They had subs out really early today.
I’m sorry I didn’t see this earlier — was out doing some Saturday cleaning.
(Sometimes I wish I could play the piano. Or the guitar. But then I think to myself, “If you really wanted to play piano you would practice. You must not really want to play the piano.” This is the same sort of thing. Le sigh. This is why sloth is a deadly sin.)
Photoshop can do all sorts of things I didn’t know it could haha. Then again I’m an almost completely self taught photoshopper so ofc I learn slowly.
Haha so true! Although when I apply this to my art and tell myself the same mantra I freak out over the prospect of not actually wanting to get better at drawing so it’s applicable to some things and not others clearly and procrastination should be its own sin! haha. (Seriously hope that last paragraph made sense its 1130pm here and I’m rambling hardcore)
Oh no I mean I DO want to improve my drawing, but I don’t nearly practice enough as I should, thus by your logic, do I REALLY want to improve or not? (I do- I’m just a hardcore procrastinator and lyfe drama and mental health doesn’t help haha, therefore I make your theory to be applicable to some things and not others…)
Amilia
September 14, 2017 at 10:39 PM
You know, if this is the look on his face every single stinking time you are together, you may possibly want to rethink your plan to marry him at all costs.
Amilia
September 3, 2017 at 10:47 AM
New skill goal: able to run in the grass in spike heels.
Amilia
September 1, 2017 at 10:14 PM
As I am in mourning for Father is Strange, I have been watching an old Lee Yu-ri daily. All kinds of soapy fun. The villianess keeps getting thwarted by modern medicine. It\’s awesome!
Sera The Ms Temper
September 1, 2017 at 10:28 PM
What is her drama you’re watching? If you want to see her in revenge mode, Heaven’s Promise and Yellow Boots are recommended!
Amilia
September 1, 2017 at 10:35 PM
Daring Women. I have heard good things about Heaven’s Promise, so I had that next on my list. Adding Yellow Boots to the list now. ☺
Amilia
August 31, 2017 at 10:04 PM
. . . um . . . I do no think that means what you think it means . . .
(Screencap from an old Lee Yu-ri daily. The villianess is going to a fertility clinic.)
Amilia
August 16, 2017 at 12:00 AM
Sitting on the top of a car. That has just driven across country. In white shorts. You, my dear, are a much braver woman than I.
darcylove
August 16, 2017 at 4:05 AM
To think from my perspective (who lives in a tropical country), my worry is the shorts rather than the colour!!!
Amilia
August 16, 2017 at 7:40 AM
Excellent point!
Amilia
August 12, 2017 at 10:00 PM
I finally checked out the Korean restaurant down the street. It was amazingly good! If any of you are ever in the Salt Lake City area, I can recommend Myung Ga.
blo
August 12, 2017 at 10:12 PM
Is that a chain? We have at least two of those in Northern Virginia.
Amilia
August 13, 2017 at 12:47 AM
Possibly? Sorry, I’m not sure. Here’s their Facebook page — you can see if it is the same restaurant. https://m.facebook.com/myunggaut/
ultramafic
August 25, 2017 at 8:03 PM
I am in the SLC area! I’ve tried all the ones closer to downtown except Ejo, but I recently realized they have black bean noodles and so I gotta. Fingers crossed Go Kyung‑pyo will deliver them to me.
Amilia
August 25, 2017 at 11:09 PM
😘I like this plan. Let me know if it works! (Also how the food is.)
And, another beanie in SLC??? Yay!!!
Amilia
August 7, 2017 at 10:34 PM
Amazoness??? Seriously? Honey, you don’t need a feminine form for a word that means warrior woman.
kayedrama
August 8, 2017 at 7:23 AM
HAHAHAHA! The subs I watched also said Amazoness – like what?!!?!
ohhaeyoung
August 8, 2017 at 9:25 AM
maybe it was a reference to Wonder Woman who comes from the Amazonian race who doesn’t really have any experience with men, especially human men…from the little I know about Wonder Woman origins anyway, don’t quote me on that as I’m pretty ignorant to her story.
Amilia
August 5, 2017 at 12:59 AM
I’m sorry, darlin, but she actually IS an evil person who torments the weak.
Amilia
July 29, 2017 at 6:20 PM
I was going to write a post about how funny it is that Kocowa feels the need to blur out the sponsor banners at the end of the show, but when I tried to take an illustrative screenshot, I discovered that Kocowa also blacks out screenshots. I find this considerably less amusing.
If you want me to pay your subscription, Kocowa, you better get your act together soon.
librarianerin
July 29, 2017 at 6:24 PM
It won’t play the episodes for me. Brings them up and stalls, at least on the app. Le sigh.
Amilia
July 29, 2017 at 6:58 PM
Oh man. That sucks. I’m sorry. I haven’t bought into premium, so I can’t watch anything over 24 hrs old,* but is has played shows that are unlocked for me just fine. Sometimes it even forgets to play ads. I know I am one of the lucky few, for all my griping.
*Have heard that things older than 3 weeks and newer than 1 year are also available. Haven’t attempted any of them yet, though.
Ra On Ah
July 29, 2017 at 8:31 PM
If Kocowa wants subscribers they should try to actually be better than the other streaming services instead of hogging all the shows to force people to sign up. I’m hoping that Kocowa will fail miserably and things will be back to normal by the next show cycle.
Amilia
July 29, 2017 at 11:04 PM
Agreed! That would be the way to do it. I really wish they had taken the time to look at their competitors to see what they do well and what could be better. As is . . . I feel like they rushed the launch to cash in on this cycle, and it’s backfiring on them.
Midnight
July 29, 2017 at 8:36 PM
Kocowa sounds more and more like trying to discourage kdrama watching instead of encouraging it.
Amilia
July 29, 2017 at 11:01 PM
It really does. You know, I was thinking about the China situation, and how the broadcasters need new revenue streams, and having their own streaming site makes sense. And I appreciate their content, and want then to be able to afford to keep making it for me. But Kocowa is so freaking frustrating in so many ways! I do not want to pay for that!!!! And making it harder to watch is not going to make me a happy return customer.
toramona
July 29, 2017 at 9:49 PM
I thought my phone was acting up! No screenshots on your phone is insane. It makes no sense. Where is our KOCOWA petition for all these weird policies.
Amilia
July 29, 2017 at 10:54 PM
It doesn’t, does it? Do they not know that screenshots are an excellent part of word-of-mouth advertising?
Amilia
July 22, 2017 at 4:17 PM
I was called Madam today. Somehow madam seem so much older that ma\’am, let alone miss. I felt like all of those drama old maids who get huffy about being called ahjumma.
Amilia
July 20, 2017 at 12:20 AM
Law school, darlin, law school.
mango
July 20, 2017 at 12:23 AM
Loved that moment HAHA I always think “How can I learn to speak like her without going to law school ?”
Amilia
July 19, 2017 at 11:58 PM
I hate trying to watch shows on the 3rd party sites. When they actually let me watch rather than sending me off to some other malicious site, the video stops and stutters. Dagnabbit, why didn\’t Viki or DF snag the license for either Reunited Worlds or Man Who Dies to Live?!?!? #firstworldproblems #grumpyentitledoldlady
Amilia
July 20, 2017 at 1:07 AM
So I just learned about kocowa. Still feeling pissy and grumpy. Should get some sleep.
Amilia
July 17, 2017 at 9:39 PM
If you had the choice between Stranger or Forest of Secrets as the translation of your drama title, why would you pick the boring generic version?
chingu
July 17, 2017 at 11:10 PM
Exactly!
Amilia
July 11, 2017 at 11:09 PM
Dramabeans has sent me off to malicious sites 3 times tonight. I expect that from the 3rd party streaming sites, but this is the first time this has ever happened to me here. 😨
chingu
July 11, 2017 at 11:17 PM
Yikes! 😦😮😱
heyitschristina
July 12, 2017 at 8:31 AM
It has happened to me a few times, I make sure to clear my cookies and browser history after it happens and it seems to prolong the time until happens again
Amilia
July 9, 2017 at 9:29 AM
So, I just started watching Lookout. Why are we clutching and crying over evidence? I looked it up, you can get fingerprints off of paper.
Amilia
July 8, 2017 at 9:47 AM
So, I discovered a Stealth Catnip after it was too late to submit. Oh well, that’s what the Fan Wall is for, right?
Surprise! It’s Cancer!
Write up below the cut.
Amilia
July 8, 2017 at 9:49 AM
Bear with me here. I am not talking about Cancer Dramas, where the cancer is built into the premise and you know what you are getting into from the get-go ala Uncontrollably Fond or Marriage Contract. I am talking about when you are watching something else entirely, say a happy fluffy rom-com, when things suddenly take a sharp left turn and one of your main characters gets cancer. So be warned — there will be major spoilers below.
After reading Lollypip’s entry on Marriage Before Dating, a known catnip of mine, I looked up and watched Wonderful Life, the only show she mentioned that I hadn’t already watched and loved. I was watching it in bits and pieces, an episode here and an episode there, in between my live watches. And very much enjoying it. And then the baby got leukemia. And suddenly I had watched 5 episodes in a row, and it was 4am and I needed to be at work in only a few short hours.
Now, I’ve been a drama addict for a few years now, and I’ve got it mostly under control now. (Shut up! I said mostly!) I’ve figured out the secret to avoiding all night marathons, and this no longer happens to me. So I was caught by surprise when I wasn’t able to put Wonderful Life down. Which got me to thinking about the last time this had happened.
Single Dad in Love. You’ve probably never heard of it since this is an old and not particularly good show. I found it while browsing through DC and liked the title (single dads being a favorite trope of mine). Read the summary — titular Single Dad falls for Heroine, whose stepmother happens to be his ex — and decided I had to see how they were going to navigate that mess. Cause you know Koreans are not just going to shrug and say, “Well, this is going to make family dinners awkward.” So I started watching it, and it was cute. Nothing to write home about, but cute. And then the hero discovered the family connection. And then the kid got cancer. Since apparently “my baby-mama is my potential mother-in-law” does not provide enough angst. So I kept watching late into the night to see if the kid got saved. He did. Yay! But then the hero got cancer too. I kept plowing through, waiting for them to clear up the cancer so they could get around to sorting out the family stuff. But no. Apparently the writer decided to take the easy way out and ended the drama right before the hero went in for brain surgery to remove the tumor. Gah!!!!
It was the exact same thing both times that had suckered me into pulling an all nighter watching dramas. I tried to think if this had happened before, mentally going through my list of dramas to see if these two shows were flukes, or if I had been sucked in by this before. And I remembered Bad Couple. This one I watched early in my drama-watching career, when all-nighters were not such a rarity.
Amilia
July 8, 2017 at 9:49 AM
But yes, when the heroine suddenly got cancer, I got sucked in even deeper. (I am saying even deeper because I was already in love with Bad Couple well before the cancer. I recognize that it is not the best show out there, but I loved it. It was my first Favorite KDrama that I watched multiple times. I still look back on it fondly. And still have a bit of a lingering crush on Ryu Soo-young left over from that show.)
Anyway, that is what I meant when I say I discovered a Stealth Catnip. I don’t go out looking for dramas with a cancer plot-twist. As a matter of fact, I find it to be manipulative and lazy writing. If I know about it beforehand, I will avoid it. But, dagnabbit, it works. At least on me. Blindside me with cancer and I will be glued to your drama late into the night and biting my nails to the end.
peichi
July 8, 2017 at 10:00 AM
Well to each there own I suppose. Personally I hated Bad Couple when the cancer came in and even more so because it was so good before. Even 10 years later I don’t think there’s ever been a romcom/trendy that came close to the level of raunchy humor and honesty about sex of the first few episodes.
Amilia
July 8, 2017 at 10:14 AM
Yay! Someone else who has fond memories Bad Couple!
To be honest, I’m a bit surprised that the cancer plot-twist made me mad at Single Dad (while still keeping me watching obsessively) but enforced my love of Bad Couple. Maybe because I found it so early on in my drama watching?
Amilia
June 24, 2017 at 6:09 PM
How I would like The Best Hit to end:
Amilia
June 24, 2017 at 6:09 PM
The time travel plot is the universe’s way of getting Hyun-jae to mend his selfish ways, and lets him see how his choices and actions affect those around him, a la It’s a Wonderful Life or A Christmas Carol. It takes a while for the message to get through, as he is very very self centered. Once it does, though, he is allowed to return to 1993. This time around, when Bo-hee tells him she is pregnant, instead of doing a runner, he marries her and they become a Hallyu power couple.
Kwang-jae never needs to be Bo-hee’s Knight in Shining Armor, so he never falls for her, and does not spend the next 20 odd years pining uselessly. Therefore, when Bo-hee’s stylist’s husband walks out on her, he is heart-free to rescue this damsel. He is a stabilizing influence on Woo-seung’s mother, and she is a freeing influence on him, and together they create a stable, loving home life for Woo-seung. Also lots of dongsaengs.
Hyun-jae lets Young-jae know how much he appreciates him and needs him, so Young-jae’s inferiority complex is not allowed to take root and he no longer feels the need to prove himself to everyone at all times. Once their idol days are over, Young-jae, Hyun-jae, and Kwang-jae together form J3, a successful and principled talent agency where they help MC Drill overcome his stage fright, and occasionally let Hye-ri eat.
Ji-hoon has a leg up when it comes to following his dreams, thanks to his famous parents. They still made him go to college before pursuing the stage, but are fully supportive of his music career. He and Woo-seung still grew up together and were still childhood friends, but this time around Ji-hoon has the confidence to confess his changing feelings early on. Woo-seung still writes songs, and she and Ji-hoon make great collaborators.
Everyone lives happily and healthily ever after. The end.
Midnight
June 24, 2017 at 10:11 PM
Fabulous ending 👍
Amilia
June 24, 2017 at 10:53 PM
Thanks! 😊
vannerie
July 9, 2017 at 11:29 AM
This could work @amilia Thanks for sharing.
Amilia
June 21, 2017 at 10:57 PM
I love this top. I want this top.
redfox
June 21, 2017 at 11:09 PM
I have a dress with the same cut in the upper part. but with strawberries.
Amilia
June 22, 2017 at 7:24 AM
Oooooo. That sounds lovely!
vannerie
July 9, 2017 at 11:28 AM
I like the style but too pink for me.
Amilia
June 20, 2017 at 8:30 PM
And the moral of the story is: always get dressed BEFORE answering the door.
Lilia
June 20, 2017 at 8:35 PM
It wouldn’t have mattered honestly.. Aera abeoji had had added 2 and 2 and made his mind about the conclusion before knocking on the door lol
Amilia
June 20, 2017 at 8:51 PM
True enough. It just makes it that much worse to be half naked.
Amilia
June 17, 2017 at 2:31 PM
Re: the cliffhanger for this week\’s Best Hit. I totally saw that coming. Doesn\’t matter. Laughed my head off anyway. Ahhh, to know how to gif.
zgs1994
June 17, 2017 at 2:58 PM
Where did you watch with subs? Could you please share? *puppyeyes*
Amilia
June 17, 2017 at 8:18 PM
Apparently I posted an inappropriate word. I’m not sure what it was. Anyway, to answer your question, I watched it at DramaFever. They had subs out really early today.
I’m sorry I didn’t see this earlier — was out doing some Saturday cleaning.
zgs1994
June 18, 2017 at 4:38 AM
No probs. Thank you!!!! ^^
sicarius
June 20, 2017 at 9:17 PM
re. gif-ing: Photoshop. And online tutorials hehe. That’s how I learnt. Although I’m still terrible at it.
Amilia
June 20, 2017 at 9:45 PM
Did not realize Photoshop could do gifs! Thanks!
(Sometimes I wish I could play the piano. Or the guitar. But then I think to myself, “If you really wanted to play piano you would practice. You must not really want to play the piano.” This is the same sort of thing. Le sigh. This is why sloth is a deadly sin.)
sicarius
June 20, 2017 at 10:19 PM
Photoshop can do all sorts of things I didn’t know it could haha. Then again I’m an almost completely self taught photoshopper so ofc I learn slowly.
Haha so true! Although when I apply this to my art and tell myself the same mantra I freak out over the prospect of not actually wanting to get better at drawing so it’s applicable to some things and not others clearly and procrastination should be its own sin! haha. (Seriously hope that last paragraph made sense its 1130pm here and I’m rambling hardcore)
Amilia
June 20, 2017 at 11:06 PM
No worries. You make sense. I am intrigued by why you would not want to improve your drawing, though.
sicarius
June 21, 2017 at 9:04 AM
Oh no I mean I DO want to improve my drawing, but I don’t nearly practice enough as I should, thus by your logic, do I REALLY want to improve or not? (I do- I’m just a hardcore procrastinator and lyfe drama and mental health doesn’t help haha, therefore I make your theory to be applicable to some things and not others…)
Amilia
June 21, 2017 at 10:34 PM
Doh! Of course! I get you now.