Witch’s Romance: Episode 12
by odilettante
Ji-yeon struggles through her confusion about her upcoming marriage to Shi-hoon and, thanks to the support of friends and family who aren’t afraid to ask the hard questions, is forced to ask herself if being married to Shi-hoon will truly make her happy. Dong-ha decides it will be easier for Ji-yeon if he removes himself completely from this bewildering love triangle (but as we all know, fate often has other plans than the ones made by idiots, even at their noblest). Shi-hoon begins to realize that maybe he isn’t the leading man of this show after all — and decides to take matters into his own hands.
EPISODE 12 RECAP
Crying as she reads the book (and the message Dong-ha wrote in it), Ji-yeon makes a decision and hurries to the door, only to find that Dong-ha is standing just outside. Startled by Ji-yeon’s tear-stained face, Dong-ha asks in concern if everything is okay. She steps outside, and as she wipes the tears from her eyes, he can’t help but notice the engagement ring on her finger.
Before she can say anything further, he apologizes for his actions earlier when he pushed her against the wall at the spa. Promising that she won’t need to worry about him any longer, he tells her that he’ll be moving out as soon as he can find a new place, so they’ll no longer be running into each other.
When she starts to protest, he takes a deep breath and says that he’s going to forget her. After all, he’s still young, so he should focus on growing his business and meeting other people. He leaves with a friendly “hwaiting” and an offer to give her an exclusive interview if his company becomes successful. Ji-yeon silently watches him go as she fights to control her emotions.
Back in the apartment, Soo-chul does his own cornering of Dong-ha as he insists that he can’t leave. Dong-ha affectionately says he’s overstayed his welcome, and tries to deflect the attention by joking about Soo-chul’s string of girlfriends. But Soo-chul is on to his buddy’s tactics, and demands to know the real reason why Dong-ha is moving out.
Dong-ha momentarily gets serious when he says that Ji-yeon is getting married, which baffles Soo-chul as he later muses to himself: “But what about that kiss [in the courtyard]?”
Early the next morning, a sleepy-head Ji-yeon lets her mother into the apartment, and is horrified when she sees that Shi-hoon is also there, embarrassed to let him see her in her “just woken up” state of disarray. She scurries off to get dressed, and once she’s properly coiffed and attired, Ji-yeon discovers that Mom’s morning visit was with a purpose: to set a wedding date.
She’s already got a few dates and available venues picked out for next month (because “why wait?”), and even though Ji-yeon clearly seems uncomfortable with the speed of the wedding preparations, she can’t protest the logic behind it.
Ji-yeon sits in distracted silence as Shi-hoon drives her to work, until he gets her attention so they can talk about their upcoming meeting with the wedding planner. She promises to double-check her work schedule, before she goes back to silently staring out the window. The awkwardness between them is just so unbearable.
Dong-ha is busy apartment hunting, and despite the landlord’s devotion to his “inspiring” wallpaper, Dong-ha is a bit horrified by the dingy little room. But it’s within his price range and available ASAP, so he says he’ll consider it.
In perfect contrast to Dong-ha’s hole-in-the wall dump of a room, Shi-hoon visits a spacious and luxurious condo where he plans to live with Ji-yeon for their first year of marriage, which he seems to have already planned out.
Meanwhile, Ji-yeon leaves work early, stating exhaustion as an excuse, and delegating assignments to her team. As she hands over a file to Rin-ji, the younger woman’s eyes bug out when they see the flashy engagement ring on Ji-yeon’s finger. Looks like the Trouble Maker office found some new gossip.
Returning home, Ji-yeon recognizes Dong-ha’s father ringing the doorbell at Soo-chul and Dong-ha’s apartment, but no one answers.
When Ji-yeon later invites Soo-chul over to give him some homemade food Mom made for the boys (aw, she’s the best!), she convinces him to stay for a cup of tea. He congratulates her on her upcoming marriage, admitting that he had originally hoped she would have gotten together with Dong-ha. Join the club, buddy.
But he reassures her that Dong-ha is doing much better now, focused instead on making money — even though Soo-chul refuses to believe that Dong-ha could willingly move out. That is, until Ji-yeon mentions that she saw Dong-ha’s father earlier that evening, and Soo-chul is hilariously shocked and panicked as he tries to figure why Papa Yoon would be there.
When Ji-yeon tries to get him to spill the beans about Dong-ha and his father, Soo-chul seals his lips, saying she won’t get the information out of him like she did when she found out about Young-chae.
Na-rae has been pestering a normally eager-to-please Min-goo with random pregnancy cravings, only to push them away because the scent makes her sick. So when she disappears upstairs to deal with her nausea, Min-goo is relieved when Dong-ha arrives to help out at the restaurant.
After closing up, Min-goo presents Dong-ha with a dinner comprised of all the rejected delicacies that Na-rae had originally craved. He vents his frustration at how Na-rae sends him on all these errands to get her food from all over area, and he does so willingly and cheerfully, but her only thanks is to reject it because she says it smells horrible. It’s reached a point where whenever she calls out his name, he wants to run away.
The true runaway, however, is Na-rae, who overheard everything Min-goo said. She shows up unannounced at Ji-yeon’s, where she plans to stay a few days. She tells Ji-yeon that Min-goo won’t even miss her while she’s gone, since apparently she was such a burden to him.
As to be expected, the Trouble Maker office is buzzing with the news of Ji-yeon’s engagement. Young-sik follows her around like the excitable puppy he is, asking about all the details of how his hero Phillip Noh proposed (trying to figure out how it could top the portrait he made of her), but she blows him off when she finds out about a new scandal brewing: It’s about a woman who died while being transferred to a new hospital, because the doctors at the original hospital were too preoccupied with a VIP patient.
After meeting with the wedding planner (a meeting that Ji-yeon had to skip in order to interview one the doctors at the hospital), Mom hands over a box that she was planning to give to Ji-yeon directly, but thinks is best coming from Shi-hoon. He opens it to reveal the pretty shoes that Ji-yeon had bought for their original wedding, six years ago.
Mom tells him how Ji-yeon would try on the shoes each night, months before the wedding, so excited about wearing them — but all I can think about is the superstition that if you give shoes to your lover, she’ll run away from you (which also makes me wonder if this is Mom’s genius and sneaky way of breaking them up).
But then she admits that, considering all that happened in the intervening years, it seems like a miracle of fate that he and Ji-yeon have been given a second chance. He promises her that he’ll do his best to live well and be happy.
As Shi-hoon is showing Ji-yeon around the condo he’s selected, she wonders if perhaps they’re rushing their wedding. After all, they’ve just started seeing each other again. Shi-hoon gets straight to the matter: “Is this about Dong-ha?”
He admits he knows Dong-ha likes her, and adds that he understands she’s concerned about Dong-ha because they used to recently work and live together, whereas he was gone for six years. When she hesitantly admits she’s still confused about how she feels, Shi-hoon takes her hands in his, promising that he won’t let her feel anxious anymore, and reassures her that as time passes, everything will be all right.
Soo-chul intercepts Eun-chae as she’s on her way home, and when she asks him straight out if he likes her, he stutters his astonishment at her audacious question — and then is adorably offended that she’d try walk away before he could answer. She sweetly informs him that she only sees him as an “oppa” in the brotherly sense: someone who is comfortable and dependable.
A depressed Soo-chul returns home, flopping over the side of the sofa. Dong-ha tries to leave, but Soo-chul stops him and asks Dong-ha if he ever felt like Ji-yeon (who he calls “noonim”) was like a real older sister. He answers his own question, saying of course not, because you can’t have romantic feelings for a blood relative. As Dong-ha tries to snap him out of his depressed reverie, Soo-chul refuses to be considered as just a “brotherly oppa.”
Ji-yeon returns to apartment, horrified at the mess Na-rae has made as she apparently tried to eat everything in Ji-yeon’s kitchen. Happily slurping down the mangoes Ji-yeon bought her (by biting through the skin instead of cutting them up, which, ew), Na-rae admits it’s amazing that her appetite is back. Ji-yeon is just totally grossed out by her friend’s messy ways — I’m thinking this is one shared living arrangement that won’t last long.
As the women settle into bed, Na-rae says Min-goo hasn’t bothered to call. She assumes he’s too busy living the high life without her, and warns Ji-yeon to rethink getting married, “since all men are the same.” Ji-yeon updates her friend about the condo she looked at with Shi-hoon, and Na-rae asks if this means things are now totally over with Dong-ha. Ji-yeon wonders how something can be over when it never even started in the first place.
Returning to her role as Voice of Reason, Na-rae points out that the only reason Dong-ha decided to move on was because Ji-yeon never confessed her true feelings to him. But Ji-yeon says that since he’s decided to move on, she wants to support that decision; she doesn’t want to be selfish and hinder him on his fresh start. Oh, the double-edged sword of noble idiocy.
But Na-rae finally asks the question we’ve all been dying to know for weeks now: How does Ji-yeon feel about Shi-hoon? She says that he’s a good person, and she’s getting a second chance to marry the same man — shouldn’t she be grateful for this chance as she leaves her thirties? Is it really true that, after time passes, everything will be okay?
The next day at work, Ji-yeon is astonished to see that the news about the hospital patient dying has grown even hotter, so she orders her team to track down more information, but pulls Eun-chae aside for a private debriefing. Turns out that the hospital that had denied the patient service is the one run by Dong-ha’s father.
Eun-chae, who knows about Papa Yoon because of her sister, promises that she won’t reveal the connection with Dong-ha. (Let us take note that, once again, Ji-yeon tries to quietly protect Dong-ha.)
She blows off yet another wedding planning session with Shi-hoon to focus on the story. He’s suspicious, though, when he sees her get into a taxi after telling him she’s stuck in a meeting — but he doesn’t pursue her. Instead, he heads over to her apartment to drop off some wedding catalogues, and Na-rae is happy to let him in.
As he’s filing the catalogues away on her bookcase, he oh-so conveniently spots the Paulo Coelho book Dong-ha left behind, and sees beneath the “Will you stay with me?” note, another message: “I’m sorry… for being so late…” with a tear splotch in the middle of the ink.
But Shi-hoon doesn’t let any emotion across his bland expression, so who knows how he feels as he shelves the book to instead focus on Na-rae, who deals him an extra blow by telling him that men tell lies to protect themselves, but women tell lies to protect the other person. She’s referring to the fact her husband isn’t her first love, even though Min-goo assumes he is — but it looks like Shi-hoon is finally realizing just how much he truly doesn’t understand about Ji-yeon’s relationship with Dong-ha.
Ji-yeon stops by the restaurant, letting Min-goo know how much Na-rae misses him. He rushes out to go and get her, leaving Ji-yeon to mind the restaurant while he’s gone. She promises to scare off the customers for a couple of hours, but it looks like she won’t be doing it alone as Dong-ha shows up for his part-time shift.
They sit in uncomfortable silence on opposite ends of the bar, until Ji-yeon ventures to ask him how Master of Part-Time Jobs is going, and she matches his less-than enthusiastic reply of “so-so” when he asks her how her marriage preparation is going.
The awkwardness begins to dissipate — as does their physical distance — when Ji-yeon tells Dong-ha all about her new assistant. He’s determined to find a weakness, and is unsuccessful until he finally discovers the new assistant doesn’t know how to drive. When Ji-yeon points out that now he’s being the competitive one, he insists that he’s just a sunbae looking out for a hoobae (yeah, because having a job two whole months makes you an expert). But the important thing is they’re back to being all adorable smiles and teasing banter.
After dinner celebrating Na-rae’s return home, Ji-yeon and Dong-ha slowly walk up the steps to their respective apartments, where Dong-ha breaks the news that he will be moving out next week. She tells them they should have a party before he moves out, like he and Soo-chul gave her when she move back to her apartment. He reluctantly agrees.
As Mom preps her hanbok (for the wedding photo shoot, I presume), she worries if Ji-yeon is okay with getting married. She admits that she wanted Ji-yeon to marry so she wouldn’t be lonely, and would have someone she could depend upon and lean on, to live happily live forever with someone who cherishes her. But she doesn’t want Ji-yeon to get married just for the sake of being married.
Finally, she asks the vital question: “Are you sure the person you want to be with forever is Shi-hoon?” Six years ago, Ji-yeon couldn’t stop talking or thinking about her marriage to Shi-hoon, but now Shi-hoon is the one who takes care of all the wedding details.
Ignoring Ji-yeon’s explanation that she’s just been busy, Mom points out that she’s only ever wanted her only daughter to live well, and not worry about other people — to be happy and joyful. Ji-yeon’s mother starts to tear-up as she pulls her daughter into a hug, and I do, too, because she’s the best Mom ever.
On the day of the wedding photo shoot, Ji-yeon’s face is inscrutable as she gazes at her reflection, finally seeing herself in her wedding dress. She tries to force a smile, but it doesn’t quite seem to stick. Na-rae is the mood maker, though, as she cheerfully rushes into the wedding boutique in her bridesmaid dress, and the two are super cute as they pose for selcas.
But as they drive to the photo shoot, Na-rae experiences shooting pains in her abdomen and starts to panic. Ji-yeon immediately directs the driver to reroute to the hospital.
Min-goo is practically on the verge of a nervous breakdown as he and Dong-ha arrive at the hospital, and Ji-yeon shows him in what room he can find Na-rae. But Dong-ha is frozen in place, captivated by the sight of Ji-yeon in her wedding dress. His face is exactly the awe-filled, totally stunned expression a bride would want to see from her groom on their wedding day.
The two of them wait together, sitting side-by-side, tense to hear word about Na-rae. She returns to the waiting room with a big smile on her face, happy that her abdominal pain turned out to be nothing more than just gas. After Min-goo and Na-rae leave to get another exam, Ji-yeon stumbles in relief, the shock wearing off.
Dong-ha catches her in his arms — and that’s when Shi-hoon rounds the corner, having recently discovered about Na-rae’s emergency rush to the hospital when he was trying to get in contact with Ji-yeon, but her phone was in Na-rae’s purse.
He watches as Dong-ha gently (and with great concern) guides Ji-yeon to a seat, and he seems fully aware of the way Dong-ha is unable to take his eyes off of Ji-yeon. Quietly, Shi-hoon slips away, unnoticed.
When Min-goo apologizes for disrupting the photo shoot, Ji-yeon suddenly remembers Shi-hoon and runs out of the hospital, hoping she won’t be too late to the studio — and Dong-ha stares after her with his sad puppy-dog eyes.
She finally arrives at the studio two hours late, but no one is around except for Shi-hoon. She apologizes for ruining everything, and he reminds her that he’s a professional photographer.
But before they can take their photos, he gives her the old wedding shoes, placing them gently on her feet. (She’s totally going to run away now, right?)
He sets the automatic timer on the camera, and Ji-yeon sits stiffly in the ornate chair as Shi-hoon stands next to her. The camera flashes over and over as they pose for their wedding photos.
Dong-ha packs his suitcase, officially accepting that Ji-yeon is marrying “the polar bear,” and, with one last look around at the apartment they used to share, promises to start his life anew.
Back in Shi-hoon’s house, he and Ji-yeon look through the wedding photos they took. As he selects a favorite photo to take with him, he tells her he thinks that she was right — they rushed their wedding and the rekindling their relationship. She keeps missing their appointments, and he’s always left waiting. As he pours himself a glass of whisky, he muses over the fact that she spent six years waiting for him, but he got tired waiting just two hours for her at the photography studio.
Ji-yeon apologizes again for not calling him earlier, but Shi-hoon tells her that the words he’s heard most from her since he’s been back is “I’m sorry,” and it’s become annoying. Shi-hoon thought that they would be able to get along just like old times, but he was deluded: “I like you, but not to the point where I can endure everything.”
Tears and confusion fill Ji-yeon’s eyes as Shi-hoon deals the final shocking blow, declaring that they should call off the wedding, pretending their marriage plans never happened.
COMMENTS
Oh, Shi-hoon; you ass.
I don’t think anyone has been particularly convinced that Shi-hoon was actually going to be the end-game in this drama, just because of the way they’ve made it so clear that Ji-yeon and Dong-ha are pretty perfect for each other (not to mention, hello, a little thing called “chemistry”).
But I admit I wasn’t expecting that. Maybe I was expecting too much, actually, since I’d been hoping that Ji-yeon would finally make her own decision about Shi-hoon, and break up with him by her own agency. Not being forced into another break-up just because he made that unilateral decision without checking with her first.
Then again, has he done anything where he made the decision to check in with her first? I mean, this is the guy who returned to Korea to publicly express his feelings for her with that ridiculous portrait, which, if she hadn’t gone to the press conference, she would have found out from the newspapers. This is the guy who plans their first year of marriage, and overrides any serious concerns she might have with a “it’ll be okay, don’t worry.”
I’d like to think that he’s actually doing this out of some bizarre sense of “noble idiocy” because he can clearly see that she and Dong-ha have a thing together, something that he will never be able to have with Ji-yeon as we currently know her, and is stepping aside to allow her the freedom to pursue Dong-ha with a unfettered heart. Except, he’s not stepping aside so much as he’s brutally smashing any option she might have wanted to consider, just because of how it makes him feel. He’s metaphorically slapping her in the face by saying, “You might have cared enough to start things up again with me after six years of never hearing from me, but I can’t handle two measly hours waiting for you.” (At least, I felt like I was punched in the gut when he said that. Pretty sure my gasp could be heard across town.)
I’d totally be willing to consider that maybe he’s actually trying to be an extra-huge jackass so that Ji-yeon will never have lingering feelings or “what-ifs”, and will instead remember him as the jerk who broke her heart, again. Or maybe that’s his true personality — maybe he’s really that awful and selfish. I can’t really tell, because the character is so bland and boring that I have no idea what his true personality is really like (all I know is he makes everyone around him cry, which is not exactly a selling point). Sometimes I wonder if he really exists, or if he’s some faded memory of Ji-yeon’s past that she’s somehow projected into reality, so desperate is she for need for closure.
But what woman in their right mind would choose to be dumped like that?
I suppose that’s the important word here: “choose.” Because I feel like Ji-yeon hasn’t been able to choose much lately, and that bothers me. Seeing her so insecure and conflicted, when I know she’s much more capable of figuring out a path and a solution, saddens me. I was so happy to have a glimpse of that “Lois Lane” take-charge reporter again, because that’s the Ji-yeon that sparkles and is vibrant, who is happy and joyful, who lives her life and doesn’t care what anyone else thinks. To spend the rest of her life with someone who will cherish her for who she his, crazy bed-head and all. (And can I get another shout-out for an awesome drama-Mom who fully supports her child, and just wants the best for her?)
I felt it was symbolic that the first time Dong-ha sees her in a wedding dress (even though it isn’t for him), she’s bathed in a ray of lovely sunshine. For Dong-ha, Ji-yeon is light. Their whole interaction at the hospital, a place where a woman should feel out of place in a wedding place, felt so right, like they were in cathedral instead of a waiting room. They were surrounded by lovely bright pastels, back-lit by the perfectly situation rays of sunshine. It felt so light, airy and romantic — just how a wedding should feel.
Contrast that to when she finally arrives at the photography studio, where the lights are out, everything is dark and dreary and depressing. Ji-yeon looks uncomfortable in her surroundings, her glow is gone. The mood is hushed and sombre. Instead of taking a wedding photo, you would think they were prepping for a funeral.
Considering the fact that we still have two weeks left, I do have hope that we’ll see the return of the original Ji-yeon, the “witch” Ji-yeon. I have hopes that she’ll use her investigative powers for good and help figure out the truth behind Dong-ha’s father and “the incident,” perhaps getting them to reconcile, and maybe Dong-ha can move on with his life without being stuck in his million dead-end jobs.
And also find a way to convince him that she loves him as much as he loves her, and truly wants him to remain in her life forever (with, of course, lots of kissing — because, y’know, we can never forget the kissing).
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1 redfox
May 31, 2014 at 4:13 AM
YESSSSS he is gone. pheef. no more smugface
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redfox
May 31, 2014 at 4:31 AM
and please, a request. to everyone. dont dwell in that s***head. ignore, forget. talk about other things. I dont want to give any more time or thought to that guy
I just want to say: to true friends! friendship is awesome! and it lasts through life!
and I want a Soo Chul screensaver together with sound effects. how, please? any programmers here?
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a_diva
May 31, 2014 at 3:25 PM
I love SooChul too!
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2 WintermelonT
May 31, 2014 at 4:22 AM
Oh show *sighhhhh*
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Windies
May 31, 2014 at 5:36 PM
"Happily slurping down the mangoes Ji-yeon bought her (by biting through the skin instead of cutting them up, which, ew)"
Its so odd to see "eww" because the way to eat mangoes in the Caribbean is to bite into the skin. Most ppl eat it like this and on the off occasion you will use a knife. Skin is also edible by the way. the burst of juice when u bite into it is amazing. cant get that with a knife.
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Arhazivory
June 1, 2014 at 8:42 PM
Yup. Caribbean girl here and that's how we nom nom nom our mangoes.
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3 D's handphone
May 31, 2014 at 4:35 AM
He is a major ass. I know the end doesnt justify the means but im glad he's making an exit. Just wished Ji-yeon is more proactive about it..
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Pepper Fish
June 1, 2014 at 7:00 AM
I hope the next episode starts off with J-yeon telling him off. I'm having gleeful fantasies about it. Haha.
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4 Sophie
May 31, 2014 at 4:35 AM
Only 2 weeks?! Oh right, I almost forgot this. I wish it would have 20 eps.. *sigh*
"I suppose that’s the important word here: “choose.” Because I feel like Ji-yeon hasn’t been able to choose much lately, and that bothers me." Yes, THIS. I totally agree with you. When she is with DH, she doesn't pretend at all. She is comfortable with all she has, their chemistry is undeniable. But whenever this ex, Shi Hoon, is around, she acts as if everything is out of her control. She never calls first, hardly speaks to him. This pairing is just so boring!
I hope in the next episode, she will make her mind clear and go back to DH and convince him that he is the one and only.
DH and JY deserve to be happy! They were both very heartsore in the past. They can finally leave everything behind and look ahead together. And I seriously don't wish to see them officially together at the very end of the series. Make it happen this week, writer-nim!
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Hari
May 31, 2014 at 7:39 AM
Yes, the optimal word is "choice"; even though JY put her true feelings in the book & we get to hear some of her feelings, I so wanted her to end it with SH.
JY & Dong-ha are sorely in need of hand-holding, hugs, kissing....hurry up show.
Best mom ever!
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5 Aigoooo
May 31, 2014 at 5:04 AM
I just want to know one thing.. What happened to the Witch in "Witch's Romance"? All I keep seeing now is a mushy Ji Yeon who puts on a tough persona at the office. She's suppose to be this take charge hard-a$$ who doesn't mince words.
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6 banana
May 31, 2014 at 5:06 AM
does anyone knows the song that they use in ep 11 & 12, it's a female voice and a ballad song?
first at ep 11 when Dong Ha and Ji Yeon trap in a room and for ep 12 where Ji Yeon and Shi Hoon taking a wedding pictures.
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Trapper
June 3, 2014 at 2:18 PM
Joohee (주희) [8Eight] - 안녕 (Hello)
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7 ailee
May 31, 2014 at 5:08 AM
oh that asshole. a lil' bit pissed over the fact that SH managed to dump her again instead of the other way around. twice man twice! what the hell is wrong with JY? urghhh she's awesome but she annoys me. why is she just letting it happen all over again? crossing my fingers that the next episode wont be what i'm expecting it to be. come on writer nim, bring out the JY we love! the feisty one with so many claws out. let her be the one shoving it into that ass' face now.
other than that, keep calm Dong Ha yah. you'll be the winner soon! we're nearly there at the finish line. fighting!
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8 dfwkimchi
May 31, 2014 at 5:18 AM
thanks for the detailed recap odilettante!
I really wanted to see Ji-yeon kick Shi-hoon of her life in her own terms -not Shi-hoon 'voluntarily' taking himself out of it.
But either way- he should be gone in the next week - we hope!
Hopefully Ji-yeon sees that just about everyone around her was cheering her on with Dong-ha! Hope no more tears for Dong-ha after last week.
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9 Denali
May 31, 2014 at 5:28 AM
Or... SH did the brave thing to break up because he was aware of JY's reciprocated feelings for DH as well as her inability to call the wedding off, which would have resulted in a hellish life together.
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 6:36 AM
Perhaps, but he could have done it in a way that wasn't quite so lame-a**ed.
I'm just not buying that it's because he's trying to make her hate him so she'll feel less guilt or something, but that's because there are so many gaps about his background story (the six years) that I'm just not willing to believe anything other than that he's a douche.
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jusash
June 1, 2014 at 2:03 PM
Smugface is not blind that JY's not that into him anymore, after 6 yrs, or that another guy Dong-ha totally adores his fiance.
Maybe it's a face-saving gesture for himself.
But I choose to think Smugface is actually being a considerate noble idiot and a deliberate a*s so the end can be clear-cut.
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v
June 1, 2014 at 6:58 PM
hey whatever he's doing noble idiot or saving his face, it's better than leaving her in the altar....again...Plus in this drama, the one I really don't like is how the writer pictured polar bear. So much empty explanation. Too many, what, how, why, the heck is happening stuff. Making the viewers so easily hateeee the second lead. Come on, make a meatier character would ya?!
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10 Heartoppaya
May 31, 2014 at 5:45 AM
I univesally hate Polar bears now. Shi Hoon, what did you do to me? *throws sharp objects*
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11 Jadis
May 31, 2014 at 5:58 AM
So whilst Shi-hoon acknowledges the fact she waited and mourned for his disappearance in the past six bloody years, he doesn't even have the patience and desire for action to let her make up her mind?
Don't get me wrong, the sonner he's out of the picture the better, so I'm definitely not complaining about the episode's development but wow, this character, what a jerk.
Ji-yeon girl, I don't get you, what are you hesitating about? You've got a guy who's younger, better-looking, taller, flawless personality with unlimited potential as opposed to this old and boring bun! I know the age difference in Korea's current society is quite the barrier, but you should not even if you can't accept Dong-ha, Shi-hoon is the worst possible life settlement!
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12 Dramaqueen
May 31, 2014 at 5:59 AM
I don't think Shi-Hoon was being a dick. He probably realizes now that Ji-Yeon's feelings for him are not love but a sense of duty. It's all one sided and he needs to let her go now. He can't expect her to pick up from where they left off and go through the marriage as if 6 years did not pass between them. While he might still be nursing the same feelings for her - she had to work through uncertainty, anxiety, fear, anger and lost hope. All which led her to be nicknamed 'The Witch' to her peers. She only managed to move on with Dong-ha and it looks like Shi-Hoon has finally realized this of her and is now ready to accept that letting her go is his greatest show of love for Ji-Yeon.
On a personal note....I can't wait for Shi-Hoon to disappear. Burnt pancake face with a bunch of grapes for hair..... hmmp!
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Arawn
May 31, 2014 at 6:09 AM
He is being a dick. EVEN if he thinks he should step down and allow Ji-yeon to pursue a relationship with Dong-ha, he should ASK. This guy NEVER truly considers Ji-yeon's feelings, does he. He never really gives her a chance to CHOOSE.
ARGH.
I so wanted her to make the choice instead of mr. smugface. Please let her make her mind in the next episode, PLEASE.
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liza
May 31, 2014 at 6:33 AM
Arawn I agree with u. Instead of hurting her all ot
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 6:43 AM
I don't think he needs to ask – if you want out of a relationship, you don't need someone else's permission.
BUT he could done the break-up in a way that didn't remind us yet again that he's a jerk that never considers her feelings, but only cares about himself.
Characterwise, of course, I would have preferred that Ji-yeon be the one to do the breaking up rather than being the passive damsel in distress. If I'm honest, I don't really want her with Dong-ha now. I want her to get herself together, become aware about her feelings and herself as a person, an active, happy person, not a passive chess piece that nearly marries the guy that left her at the altar six years ago or the sweet youngster that worships the feet off her ground.
Sure, Dong-ha is probably the right guy for her, but it shouldn't be a "I didn't get this guy because he dumped me, so I'm going for the other one now because he wants me".
In any case, I don't think she's ready to marry yet. If she doesn't take a relationship break, she should date Dong-ha first to actually develop their relationship into something that will last long term.
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liza
May 31, 2014 at 7:36 AM
@alua yes, I also think she doesn't deserve
Dong-ha now. I'm so disappointed that she stubbornly insist to marry Shi-hoon despite her own doubts,and she even aware that she's not happy with him. why she couldn't bring herself to say no to him? Really don't understand her way of thinking. Now I truly think she's silly
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soprection
May 31, 2014 at 1:11 PM
To be fair, nothing says that the show will end with her marrying DongHa (and I don't think it should). Jiyeon and DongHa have the foundation for a good relationship and great chemistry but neither is ready for marriage right now. She has to fully work through everything with Shihoon and move forward willingly and purposefully now that that chapter of her life is officially closed and DongHa needs to figure out what he's doing with his life and decide if he's going back to med school or whatever. I think the best thing they can do now is be honest with each other about their issues and possibly decide to take a break for awhile, then date or start dating now and take it slowly while they respectively work through their issues (and DongHa finishes medical school). If the show ended with them getting married, it would be really odd to me. I definitely thought she and Shihoon were rushing it but I could see why they would jump right into that given the pressure from her mother, their ages and the fact that they were planning to marry 6 years ago anyway but it wouldn't be right for her and DongHa at all. It would be particularly strange since she and DongHa have both acknowledged that they never really got a chance to date at all.
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 4:04 PM
Yeah, I'm hoping the drama writers will be wise enough not to end this story with a JY/DH wedding. Well, they could do it with a time-jump, although I would prefer it if they even didn't do that – just setting JY/DH on the right path would be enough for me.
My gut feeling is that JY's mother wasn't so much pressuring JY to get married, but rushing it to push JY's buttons and really get her thinking about whether this is the right choice to make. (Sadly JY took no action.) Well, I might be over-interpreting it, but that's how I'd like to think...
Arawn
May 31, 2014 at 11:52 PM
I agree with you. I, too, want her to choose Dong-ha and not just to run to him because he's the second best option. Actually, what I really wanted was her to 1) realize she & Shi-hoon are done, no matter what, whether there's a young hottie waiting for her or not and 2) after realizing this and breaking up with Shi-hoon, then she could've examined her feelings and found that she truly does love Dong-ha and BAM.
But seemingly we won't be getting any of this.
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jusash
June 1, 2014 at 2:09 PM
True that, good point!
I didn't think of it that way - don't want JY just running off to DH, just because he's now default choice.
He's way too precious for that!
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v
June 1, 2014 at 7:03 PM
It is suck for Dong-ha, but he's also copying polar bear in writing the "would you stay with me?" stuff in the book. I mean he should at least you know copy his ex's plant message instead, or anything else. So in a way, in this drama, seems like nobody (alive) actually do their stuff in original way. sigh....a bit disappointing for a drama that could potentially be much better.
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liza
May 31, 2014 at 7:04 AM
Sorry accidentally posted :p
Don't know if he purposefully being a jerk so she can leave him for good, or he naturally was a born jackass. He can be honest with her about his real intention, but maybe his stupid male ego prevented him from doing that so he chose to dump her first! it's kinda win-win situation; she can freely go to Dong-ha now, and he can walk away with his pride intact
I have mixed feelings for Ji yeon though. I pity her for being hurt again, and at the same time I think it serves her right. At least now she can really learn the lesson. Just pray that Dong-ha will take you back,woman!
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 4:20 PM
I think my own conclusion is that Shi-hoon's character is just lazily written. He is just too easy to hate. A more complex character that's a worthy love-rival would have allowed us to take Ji-yeon's struggle more seriously and would have added something to narrative conflict. But there's too much about him that's unexplained and doesn't quite make sense, there's nothing enough attracting about him, or more appealing than any other male that JY might have married through an arranged date (I'm removing DH entirely from the equation here, because I think even if there were no DH to highlight some of SH's most serious flaws, the script fails at showing SH's specific appeal.).
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v
June 1, 2014 at 7:04 PM
sooo agree
13 hipployta
May 31, 2014 at 6:08 AM
Rather than being an asshole you could just say you don't think Jiyeon's heart is with you...because honestly even if you're doing this to "set her free" is also selfishly seals you in her heart forever for hurting her again...
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14 Z
May 31, 2014 at 7:08 AM
I always ate mangoes by biting through the skin. I thought that's the way everyone did it until I got married. I only stopped a couple of years ago because I developed a sensitivity to the oils or something that makes my lips break out.
As much as I don't care about Shi-hoon at all because he's nothing but an obvious plot device; I do think this this break up is his attempt at being a Noble Idiot and painting himself as the bad guy so it'll be easier for Ji-yeon to go to Dong-ha. I'm not saying it's the most brilliant idea in the world... and it's still a jerk move, but I don't think he's being a jerk just for the sake of being a jerk.
On the other hand... I still would have preferred for Ji-yeon to make the decision on her own rather than getting dumped as a pretense for "giving her permission" to go to Dong-ha. I could kind of forgive all the wishy-washyness if she was a 22-year-old Candy but she's a 40-year-old grown, succesful woman who, up to this point in her life, has known her own mind. I would have respected the writing much more if she had done the breaking up.
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 4:33 PM
"an obvious plot device"
That! That's why I think the failure is, most of all, on part of the writers, and not the characters and/or actors.
"I could kind of forgive all the wishy-washyness if she was a 22-year-old Candy but she’s a 40-year-old grown, succesful woman who, up to this point in her life, has known her own mind"
Agreed. The problem with her passiveness and wishy-washiness for me is also that if they do now end it with a perfect-happy-ever-after (=wedding with DH), I'm just not going to be able to buy it because her behaviour now makes it so clear she isn't ready for that yet at all. Unless they do a time-jump of course, but with 4 episodes left I doubt we are going to see her journey towards a person that can make us feel sure that a relationship with DH is going to work out and that it's not just a Disney ending that's forced on us just because romances are supposed to conclude like that.
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15 Leslie7622
May 31, 2014 at 7:15 AM
I guess I'm part of the minority of those who don't really hate Shi-hoon. Don't get me wrong, I'm on Team Dong Ha all the way. But while Dong Ha is just so amazing, Shi Hoon just strikes me as the normal, slightly self-absorbed man.
Shi-hoon is, yes, a bit dominating in personality, but I think he seems to be more so because Jiyeon is so meek when it comes to him. He has very fixed ideas of what his and Jiyeon's future would be like and that's probably because he may be a little self-absorbed and probably does not put a lot of thought into what Jiyeon really wants. But tbh most people are like that.
Also, while I think he loves Jiyeon, he doesn't know her that much. And that's because Jiyeon tends to be fake around him. So he does things that he thinks Jiyeon will like but ends up just suffocating her because its clearly not what Jiyeon wants (proposing, condo, house etc).
It took him a while but I think he's finally figured out that Jiyeon's confusion may be because she really does have stronger feelings for Dong Ha. And like any reasonable man, he doesn't want to play second fiddle to another man. He just doesn't love Jiyeon that desperately.
So he's acknowledging his mistake of pushing Jiyeon to marriage and correcting it. Probably not only for Jiyeon's sake but his as well.
And while it was awful that he didn't get in touch with jiyeon immediately after the wedding and he really was an ass about that. It's again probably because he was so focused on the fact that Jiyeon rejected him (when she returned the ring) after he missed the wedding. Again, he failed to think about what Jiyeon must have really felt.
I also don't think he realizes how ass-y his actions come off towards others.
At most I think he's just not very thoughtful of others. While he wants to make Jiyeon happy, he just does what he thinks will make her happy. Most girls would probably be deliriously happy with what Shi Hoon thinks is romantic. Unfortunately its hard to seem romantic to someone who is clearly in love with someone else.
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Vincy
May 31, 2014 at 11:15 PM
Completely agree with this!!
I agree with most people that Shi-Hoon is an ass but everyone is self-absorbed. If you get that famous, you get caught up in your fame. Hence why he didn't see why Ji Yeon, who used to be so head over heels for him, doesn't love him anymore.
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16 maryann
May 31, 2014 at 7:39 AM
Does this mean that JY wrote the second message "I'm sorry for being so late"?
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Dramafed1782
June 4, 2014 at 3:59 AM
Yep.... It is in tandem with Taiwanese drama...The original had the hero write on the wall, "Would you stay with me?" when her apartment had completed the renovation. However he placed a bookcase in front of it.
The female lead found it later when her ring fell under the bookcase and she moved it. Later on her fiance comes to the apartment as the drama goes on and finds her writing "Sorry it's too late".
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17 Butterflywander
May 31, 2014 at 8:07 AM
Thank you for your recap!!! Sigh the pangs of anticipation - monday is crawling here so slowly!!!
On a sidenote - I love JY so much! Did anyone else also feel like tearing up when she returned to find NR a stinking mess and tenderly brought a face wash to help wash her up although she was all grumbles?
:)she and dongha really do belong together like the awesome people they are! when they settled back into the familiar banter my cold heart was all warmed up again :) haha otherwise it'll be great with SC and DH end up together too :p kudos to the two of them for bringing on the sexual tension too haha.
and SH u self absorbed pushy pain in the ***, i can't stand how u wallow in self pity and expect the world to be all over you when honestly, you don't deserve awesome JY.
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18 Lilian
May 31, 2014 at 9:15 AM
That was indeed a horrible way to end the relationship.....but good riddance Shi Hoon! Never for once did I feel her decision to accept him as correct. It was based on old feelings definitely. No spark between them as far as I can see!
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19 dkaoru
May 31, 2014 at 10:03 AM
I hope the next episode starts the scene with Jiyeon whacking polar bear on the head with the wedding shoes "U're dumping me?!! I'm dumping u! U're an old boring 40yr old who needs to dress better and stop wearing a weird toupee!!!"
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20 meowingme
May 31, 2014 at 10:12 AM
Shi Hoon's action seems like noble idiocy with the emphasize on idiocy. He must be the most universally hated second lead in the whole kdrama kingdom, nobody's shipping him! Off with Shi Hoon, onward with the daddy trouble. When, when, when will the sexy continuation of ep 2 happen?
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21 dkaoru
May 31, 2014 at 10:23 AM
I'm going to an alternate universe where ep12 didnt happen.
After Ji yeon opened her door at the end of ep 11, she told dong ha she choose him rather than polar bear. Insert awesome kissing scenes here.
Then she went and faced polar bear and informed him of her awesome decision. Polar bear was disappointed but decided to go back to alaska n be with his own species. After a while he decides to go to africa to help the poor children there. He's a jackass but thats no reason to not make himself useful.
Jiyeon and Dong ha opened their own magazine reporting on corrupt gov officials. Su ha from I hear your voice would guest-starred as the cop who arrests the corrupt officials. And Yoon jae from reply1997 would appear as the judge who sentenced the criminals. It's my alternate universe, I will fill it with all my fave boys wakakakakakaka. And they all live happily ever after. The end.
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ailee
May 31, 2014 at 10:30 AM
you're awesome.
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Sam
May 31, 2014 at 1:14 PM
BEST DRAMA EVER!
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jusash
June 1, 2014 at 2:17 PM
I love your version!
And we'd be spared 2 episodes of wasteful polar bear time, which could have been filled with more spa-tension or kissing scenes.
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22 Pallas
May 31, 2014 at 10:32 AM
I know some are bewildered by Ji-yeon trying to go back to Shi-hoon when Dong-ha is so awesome, but she was with the man for ten years. TEN YEARS. Many people would find it hard to just walk away from that for a relationship that hasn't really started yet. And she mourned the relationship for another six years on top of that. I think that she almost has to at least see what it might be like to reunite with the man she thought she was going to marry.
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23 kitty
May 31, 2014 at 10:36 AM
Shi-hoon isn't even a real 'evil character' but damn, I think I've never been so pissed at a character before. I thought I wanted to break something when he told her to pretend their marriage wasn't even going to happen. Revenge that dude Ji-yeon, be a real witch.
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24 fan
May 31, 2014 at 10:40 AM
While I'm really hoping that Shi Hoon isn't just a major asswhip and that there is some reason to justify Ji Yeon having loved him for song long, this episode just solidifies my anger towards him. As mentioned before, he just does everything, without even trying to take Ji Yeon's own choices and concerns into consideration. "Oh you're confused that you might be marrying the wrong man? It's ok, you'll change your mind soon." WTF just because you live with one person forever, doesn't mean you will automatically grow to love them. Or forget anyone else. And seriously if he's going to try and step aside to make things easier for Ji Yeon, did he really have to make it all her fault and in the process make her feel pathetic for waiting for 6 years? He could have simply said, look maybe we really are rushing things, let's hold off, you figure things out and we'll be good no matter what. That's the least he could have done for Ji Yeon after what he did to her. And you know let her "choose" her own future man.
I really can't get mad at Dong Ha for lying to Ji Yeon when he said he was going to forget her, because honestly he laid it all on the table honestly and let Ji Yeon know he was up for grabs, but with the ring on her finger it kind of points to not you buddy. BUT I am mad that he didn't just let Ji Yeon speak when she wanted to.
While frustrating, I can understand Ji Yeon staying quiet after Dong Ha's confession, although it was a bit "Shi Hoon" of her and well I wasn't happen about it. She made a unilateral decision without telling Dong Ha everything (her confession). I get that she feels guilty holding on to him after all this time she's been throwing that age thing at him and then he comes back and uses it as his excuse to leave, even tho they both know full well that him forgetting her aint happening. AND no marrying Shi Hoon is not a great way to end your 30s.
That scene in the hallway where Dong Ha sees Ji Yeon in the wedding dress was all kinds of greatness. The emotions from both side were amazing, the hurt, the happiness, the confusion, just played out so well.
And Shi Hoon is a ratbastard for still going through with the wedding photos just so he could have a keepsake after he pushes her aside.
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fan
May 31, 2014 at 10:41 AM
ooh and I'm really hoping that witch Ji Yeon will use her reporting skills to some how mend Dong Ha's relationship with his father.
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Sam
May 31, 2014 at 1:19 PM
I agree with everything you just said.
Wish she'd been the one to break up with him, because it's kinda pathetic how it ended.
I just hope the next episode starts with Ji Yeon going all "witch" on him and putting him in his place.
And then commence sexy times with Dong Ha :)
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25 Laden
May 31, 2014 at 10:40 AM
Who casted that watery big mouthed co worker in Ji yeon's office,I dislike that guy so much,his acting sucks.and who else noticed that Ji yeon's bespectacled photographer co worker was Go sunbae's brother in city hunter(the one that lost a leg) as for Shi Hoon good riddance to bad rubbish
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nicnac
May 31, 2014 at 3:19 PM
I did! Well... Kind of. When I saw him I thoughthe looked familiar and then I thought City Hunter, but I wasn't sure. I am lovin me some Young-shik! Lol
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26 esther
May 31, 2014 at 11:18 AM
Please Ji Yeon , "choose" Dong ha happiness... really miss they laugh, they tease each other....great moment if they are together... Dong ha Fighting..... :-)
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27 RichardSharpe
May 31, 2014 at 11:23 AM
1st time writing here but I live for your recaps and comments. I just have to say a few thoughts since I've been watching 'My Queen' concurrently.
1) both series have leads that have GREAT chemistry
2) I hate the mother in MQ, she is not at all like Mom in WR, she has moments but they are few.
3) at 16 eps compared to 34 eps there is a LOT of compressing storyline and some subplots are dropped entirely.
4) the words JY wrote in the book are different than those in MQ, {MQ- 'sorry...it's too late'} WR-'I'm sorry for being so late'} puts a different perspective on it.
5) the age difference is only 8 years in MQ,
All in all, both have become favorites of mine. In my life, the love of my life was 8 years older then me, and though we are no longer together, I will always cherish her love and friendship.
These are just my thoughts at the moment, with 2 more weeks to go who knows how this will end? with 2 people who love and respect each other together i believe, but then I am a hopeless romantic deep down.
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jusash
June 1, 2014 at 2:23 PM
#3 ==== some subplots are dropped
Thankfully!
True with more more time, some parts could have been fleshed out more, but there was far too much dragged out in the Taiwanese version, including polar bear.
And so much noisier in the T-version, though in both T and K dramas = awesome chemistry!
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28 ricky
May 31, 2014 at 11:36 AM
This storyline between Ji-yeon and the ex was actually kind of boring. The show does angst well, though. Credit to the writer and Park Seo-joon for that.
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29 soprection
May 31, 2014 at 1:02 PM
Thank you for the recap and your thoughts.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way but I hate how Shihoon is choosing to handle things and I hate that his and Jiyeon's new relationship is ending because he's trying to step aside and let her be with DongHa (but not even in an honest way!) I wanted Jiyeon to CHOOSE to be with DongHa because that's what she wanted. I wanted HER to end things with Shihoon because she realized they weren't working and that they're not the same people anymore. I hate that Shihoon is taking that decision away from her and that she didn't voice her doubts in a stronger way, although I'm glad she at least said that they were rushing things and should wait. But I guess that's what Shihoon is like - he's used to being the leader in their relationship so he takes charge of even their breakup. And breaks poor Jiyeon's heart AGAIN instead of being honest and telling her that things aren't the same and he can see that she's conflicted and might be better with someone else. Ugh.
That heart-to-heart scene between Jiyeon and her mother was so sweet. It actually had me tearing up. I seriously love the supportive relationship they have and I'm happy that as much as Mom wanted Jiyeon to get married, she wants her to be happy more than anything.
Those lace wedding shoes were GORGEOUS! I would treasure those too. I have never heard that shoe superstition, btw.
Biting through the skin of the mango is how my family and I eat them too, although you should wash them first, especially if they're store bought. I had to laugh at how Narae ate them though because she bit into those mangoes like she was starving. It's definitely a messier way of eating them tho.
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30 Tara
May 31, 2014 at 1:35 PM
Isn't it telling if the wedding picture you take with your fiancé looks more like you're at a funeral (albeit in wedding garb)...?
SO glad Polar Bear is finally getting out of the picture...although it peeves me that he dumped her. Again. I reallyyy wished Ji-yeon had made the realization that she loved Dong-ha earlier...that way, she would have realized her mind and heart were not in the right place for a speedy wedding -- especially since he was doing all the wedding planning. I thought it was assy for him to complain about waiting 2 hours when she had waited 6 years for him...egotistic much? :/
I think what really bothered me about PB was that he thought he could just come back into her life, pretend like the past 6 years didn't happen, and just plan out in detail the wedding, their house, etc. Maybe he thought she was still patiently waiting for him, and that they'd reconnect and live happily ever after?? I don't ever think he had her feelings in mind (although catching JY and DH together at the hospital probably was the 'breaking point' where he decided he'd dump her)...it honestly felt like he was trying to collect and keep JY like he would a possession.
I've been super impressed with JY's mom throughout this drama...she usually plays those biatchy mother-in-laws who always complains and nags about each and every thing, so it's been refreshing (to say the least) how great of a mom she is. I, too, think that she intentionally gave those shoes to PB to give to JY -- to create the situation where they'd break up.
Na-rae really is the voice of reason here, so I was happy that she was there with JY...thanks to the 'conflict' between her and her hubby about losing the appetite for food she was just craving earlier -- dude, don't they know that happens in RL?!
I liked how at NR's restaurant, JY and DH were at opposite ends of the bar, separated as much as possible...and, as time went on, the ice started melting and they were their usual cute banter selves.
And I'll say, the chemistry between JY and DH = electric!!! :) Far outweighing the dead dull quietness between JY and PB for sure..
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Drama Queen
June 1, 2014 at 8:07 AM
I really don't think that whatever feelings Ji-Yeon will experience at Shi-Hoon's 'rejection' of her would be sadness. More a sense of confusion- because she convinced herself that the marriage was what he wants, and therefore what she should want since the first time he disappeared did not count because he was shot and had to miss their wedding AND of course not forgetting that in the 6 years following was stuck at the bottom of the sea with no internet or telecommunication capabilities when he became a captive of King Neptune when he dared look at Princess Ariel when she was sitting on a rock singing 'Part of your world'.
Yes, it'd be confusion then relief that she didn't have to tell Shi-Hoon that he may have been hot in his thirties but now that he is in his forties, he is nothing but an old uncle next to fresh hot young meat at 25!
Then relief will turn to joy as she realizes that she doesn't have to live with a very boring man whose goal in life is to take pictures of polar bears.....
Yes.......!
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Tara
June 1, 2014 at 3:19 PM
I agree, I don't think she'll feel the same way as the first time around. At least this time around, that biatch of a secretary won't be the one saying that foul crap...
I'm thinking Ji-yeon likely will feel relieved instead, especially since she couldn't bring herself to admit her feelings for Dong-ha to Polar Bear. She might feel a slight inkling of sadness, for completely ending the 10 year relationship (albeit with that 6 year absence in between)...by at least she can get closure and finality in that chapter of her life.
I've been frustrated with JY for just going along with the wedding, when her heart and mind is with DH...but I get that their relationship made up the majority of her adult life...so she couldn't easily brush it aside.
That bring said...now I'm eagerly anticipating good, cute and sexy times with JY and DH!!! ;) You're absolutely right...why should have an old fogey (haha) when she has a young hot thang who loves her unconditionally!!
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31 Amell
May 31, 2014 at 2:27 PM
Weird I know but I didn't want JY to call things off with SH because of DH I wanted her to dig in her heels about it all happening too fast because to me it was.
They had a lot of stuff to work through before they got to the marriage stage but no one was giving her time to take a breath and sort through SH being back and what really happened 6 years ago. The whole rushed wedding thing wasn't needed, SH and JY could have tentatively got back together and broken up in a more organic way without him being a self-centred tool or her a doormat.
I didn't like the marriage plotline because it caused DH angst and I hate it because it seemed engineered just for DH's angst. JY's character gets thrown under the bus to serve up his man pain.
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Arawn
June 1, 2014 at 12:04 AM
I actually kind of see why Shi-hoon would push for marriage. As many have said, he clearly is somewhat self-absorbed and used to be the dominant one in the relationship. Also, they were just getting married when THAT thing happened. So, when he comes back, he assumes that they can just re-start from the point where he left - this is actually pretty common mistake people getting back together do. Another common mistake visible here is not going through the break up and things surrounding it in the hope of avoiding more pain and confusion which, of course, only leads people to repeat same mistakes.
So, for Shi-hoon getting back together means, basically, continuing from where things were left which of course means marriage. Another reason, I think, is that he sees Ji-Yeon having feelings for Dong-ha AND also her real personality popping up from time to time and wants to bind her to himself more permanently.
I do also accept Ji-Yeon's confusion and acceptance of marriage up to a point. It's like she were thrown 6 years back in time and she must be immensely confused but Shi-hoon isn't really giving her any time to sort out her feelings and how to handle things. She just falls right back to their previous roles in the relationship allowing him to take the lead but now it's obvious she cannot be satisfied with it anymore. And yet she's afraid to let go - possible, also, because this is the guy she hated and waited for for SIX years. Now she has him back but... doesn't want to be with him anymore! So, essentially, those 6 years of hate were, up to a degree, pointless. It's a hard pill to swallow for anyone.
However, not it's about time for her to get a grip and start doing somethings instead of being just pushed around. Make a CHOICE, woman!
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32 ilo
May 31, 2014 at 3:01 PM
Sh is not a bad guy. He only acted this way to make it easier for JY to move on. He did the same thing for the taiwan version of this show.
i really don't understand the hate for Sh. He's not a bad guy. He may not have tried to contact JY for 6 years...JY also didn't either. They are both at fault. It's the stupid secretary fault. Who knows what other lies she told SH during the 6 years.
with all that said. I slightly prefer DH with JY although i find SH pitiful because he also lost alot too.
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alua
May 31, 2014 at 4:49 PM
"He may not have tried to contact JY for 6 years…JY also didn’t either."
He knew how to get in touch with her – she didn't. Major difference. It was his choice not to contact her (even if he thought she broke up with him), but JY had no choice. It was also his choice to lie to JY about where he was going prior to the wedding, which, even if he had returned and they had gotten married, would is a kind behaviour that's just a major red flag.
He isn't the only one at fault with regards to the failure of their relationship (in the past or present), but there's a couple of things he has done that are worse than JY's actions (or lack thereof).
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33 Elvira
May 31, 2014 at 7:02 PM
Shi hoon you ass!!!!!!!!
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34 Leslie7622
May 31, 2014 at 8:36 PM
Normally at this point of the drama, I'd be shouting at the male lead to stop being such a noble idiot. But for many reasons, I don't think Dong Ha is being one.
1.) He honestly went after Jiyeon. Despite fully knowing that Shi Hoon would be in many people's eye is the better man for Jiyeon (right age, financial stability, history), he didn't deprive Jiyeon of her choice to choose between him and Shi Hoon. A noble idiot would have made himself the bad guy so that Jiyeon would go to the "better" man.
2.) Only when Jiyeon rejected him clearly did he really back away. He truly wants Jiyeon to be happy and because at this point, Jiyeon has made it plain that she wants to try to be happy with Shi Hoon, he's putting himself out of the picture to help her. Dong Ha is saved from being the noble idiot because of his honesty. He never said anything untrue. When he said to Jiyeon that he was going to forget her. I felt his sincerity. He's not doing it only because he wants Jiyeon to be happy. He's doing it also because it hurts too much to see Jiyeon with another guy and he was honest about that to Jiyeon as well.
3.) That bit about Dong Ha making sure that the misunderstanding was cleared between Shi Hoon and Jiyeon may seem like what a noble idiot would do but because Dong Ha did it because he felt that any relationship between Jiyeon and him would not happy if the misunderstanding was resolved, it really isn't. He did it so that his courtship of Jiyeon will somehow be successful.
All of this has shot him to the top of my favorite male leads list. I'm a sucker for guys who are honest and actually makes sense. So many dramas have characters doing things that don't make sense to try to manufacture conflict but this drama isn't copping out. (Yeah I think Jiyeon is still making sense. 14 years is a big difference. Just watch the first half of 9 end 2 outs and you'll see what I mean. Most relationships just can't handle that big of an age gap and its a HUGE risk. Not to mention that she's already been badly burned and is more scared than the normal person. And she wanted to marry the guy at one point! She truly loved him in the past. Can't fault her for hoping that that love will come back.)
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Arawn
June 1, 2014 at 12:07 AM
Yes. Also, he HAS to back down at the moment. Because if he just kept pursuing her despite of her rejection, it would make him a dick. And Dong-ha is not a dick. He will take a "no" for an answer. He clearly gave her a choice and asked what is what she wants and now he's only respecting her wishes - it's hardly his fault that Ji-Yeon is being dishonest with her feelings.
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35 dkaoru
June 1, 2014 at 6:17 AM
Does anyone know what book it is that Dong ha wrote the "would you stay with me?" note?
I really want to get the book hahahaha
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NN
June 1, 2014 at 7:33 AM
It's The Magical Moment Tweetbook by Paulo Coelho and illustrated by Jung Hwan Hwang. Seems that it is currently only in Korean.
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36 Norule
June 1, 2014 at 6:36 AM
So far Dong Ha is the most likeable character ever! But lately the show is somewhat lacking in something...watching the show now feels llike you're thirsty and is given water. Only its like only small sipful at a time. Very frustrating! Please choose dong ha! Its very obvious! And more kissess please...
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Maru Hime
June 1, 2014 at 7:17 AM
I for one want more real-time JY and DH cuteness, closeness, and banter. I love watching them together! It makes me hopeful that I'll have that same kind of happy with somebody in the future.
And the kisses... yesssss.... Show, please! Reward us loyal followers with skinship!!!
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37 Nine
June 1, 2014 at 11:00 AM
I really like the show and I love the cute couple JY and DH.
But I'm wondering where the show ultimately is heading.
Will JY end up in the hospital of DHs father? With a live threatening illness? I hope not. Or, at least, I hope DHs father will save his girlfriend this time...
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38 Dray
June 1, 2014 at 2:40 PM
I kinda wanted JY to be the one to end it. I wanted her to listen to her heart and make a decision on who it is that makes her happy.
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39 light
June 1, 2014 at 4:34 PM
Loved the mum and daughter scene. It teared me up because mothers can be so sincere about their daughters' happiness.
Dong Ha in awe of Ji-yeon in a wedding dress in the hallway scene was heart-breaking. His heart might have fallen to pieces when she ran in her dress to her photoshoot. It is a symbolic image that will break me if I was Dong Ha.
I may be the only one thinking this...And I am on Team Dong Ha for all his loveliness and chemistry with our Ji-yeon..BUT..I think I blame DH a tinyyy bit for letting her go that night JY found DH's book. He could say that he will not forget her..and that probably will gv enough courage to JY to then go to him. I do understand, however, that it seems a little out of character for JY this past episode or two. So I hope she gets back on track in the next episode and shake SH'S hand, and then run towards DH in her lovely dress. And proceed to hitting the sack with DH. lol.
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40 nicnac
June 1, 2014 at 7:10 PM
I'll admit, the first time I watched this episode, I didn't enjoy it as much as Episode 11. I mean, that spa scene is a hard act(literally) to follow. But once I saw #12 a second time, I definitely appreciated it more.
It was stated earlier that DongHa ISN'T playing the part of "noble idiot" and I totally agree with that. I think he's being quite mature and reasonable despite his obvious heartbreak. JiYeon on the other hand, may be the one falling on her sword. Though I think she is sincere in her concern about holding him back if she confessed, she isn't giving him the same honesty he afforded her. She could simply say, "I have feelings for you, but I'm confused and I need time." Now with that being said, she should've told ShiHoon the same thing.
I'm definitely Team DH, but I don't entirely dislike SH. I can see his charm and for a man of forty-something I think he's actually pretty good looking. But, to cut her off like that, it's childish. Fine, you see she's confused and may have feelings for another man, but to act that way about it is ridiculous if you really love her. Just back up a bit brah. Let her breathe a little and if she chooses you great for you but if she choose DH great for him(lol). What I truly hope doesn't happen next episode is that we find her trying to talk him out of splitting. Please show... don't....
NaRae and Madame Choi's characters are, like, the best. I just love them and the scenes with them this episode were spot on. So were the interactions with Soo-Chul and DH. There is nothing like a best friend that's more like a sibling.
When NaRae was having pains in the car, I was screaming with them, No no nooooo and was so relieved when it was just gas, heh heh heh.
The photo shoot... Could it have been more joyless? NO really... could it?
Eun-chae shut Soo-chul down quick, but I still have hope for them and I hope they don't try to smash EC and DH together as some sort of plot contrivance.
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41 Rossi
June 1, 2014 at 9:23 PM
I refrained last ep but I can't hold it in anymore for this one. God damn it, JiYeon!! WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU? WE WERE ALL CHEERING FOR YOU!!!! *insert appropriate Tyra Bank's gif here*
I think Polar Bear is a poorly constructed plot device and an even worse drawn character so I've no investment in him but gah JiYeon!! I adored you so so much! Why the heck did you turned into this passive painfully confused creature?! Yes, I know getting your ex back after 6 years is difficult but I gave you several eps to get over that but not this many! We're operating on a 16 eps frame here, we can't afford this passive whimpering wishy washy shenanigans! Especially when there are kisses to be have!
The only way this drama can be saved for me now is if JiYeon spent the last 4 eps aggressively tackling her feelings for Dong Ha by making all the first moves (there's no need for wedding bells but once again KISSES!!!) and I just want her to be all awesome proactively again. *sob frustrated sobsssss*
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42 Cheryl
June 3, 2014 at 5:35 PM
SH is a total asshole here. She told him the other day she was confused, and he totally talked over her, pushing right in and cutting her off, saying he understood and he knew why and it was going to be fine. He assumed he knew what was bothering her and never gave her a chance to explain what was on her mind.
He's pissed off because she didn't call from the hospital. Hello, her best friend might possibly be having a miscarriage. It's an EMERGENCY situation! Cut your fiancee some slack, man! She has a legitimate reason to be distracted. As if that's not whiny enough, you're bitching about having to wait to take the pictures? Seriously? Get a life! You have zero reason to be bitching about the wait. NONE.
It's been six years, asshat. SIX YEARS. People change. If you couldn't grasp that, it's not her fault. If you're disappointed you two couldn't make a go of it again, that you both had changed too much, that's not her fault. It's not like you had no warning there'd be challenges. You should have known she had a lot of hurt and pain and confusion to work through, from her reaction to your sudden reappearance and the fact that, a few days ago, she said she was confused. Then there was her ongoing apathy toward planning the wedding. You had HUGE red flags, and you were choosing to ignore them. It's not like you spoke to her about them and she assured you she was fine. You didn't bring up your concerns. You just smiled and said nothing. So dumping it all on her, man? Major dick move. How about facing reality and accepting that what you wanted, a return to how things were six years ago, was a pipe dream that's not going to happen? You both wanted to try to give it another go but you've both changed and moved on from that point, so call it off and go your own ways. You didn't want to see it, but now you have to face facts. She was trying to make it work but it's just not going to happen. Time to part as friends. THAT is what needs to happen, not this "It's all your fault, woman!" bullshit.
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43 Ailee
September 13, 2015 at 3:59 PM
I LOVE this drama SO MUCH <3 OTP feels ~
Does anyone know the instrumental song that plays when when Shi Hoo sees Dong Ha with Jiyeon in her wedding dress at the hospital? It's when DH and JY are sitting down and DH is looking at her helplessly in awe. When she looks at him, he turns away and this heart-achingly beautiful instrumental song plays. It's not in the official OST, so I can't find it anywhere.
If anyone knows, please let me know! Thank you ^_^
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44 Angie
August 15, 2017 at 3:03 PM
is that seriously the hairstyle she's going with for her wedding photo??
the same ponytail she wears everyday??
i thought SH saying he couldn't wait was his realization that his feelings ain't worth as much as ji yeon's is but with that delivery, who knows what it was supposed to be. especially in light of the comments here.
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